This article was medicallyreviewed by Dr. Justin Lehmiller , a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram We live in a world where one must often sacrifice health for pleasure and vice-versa; for instance, if we want one ...

2026-01-24  3945

This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz . She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. It’s extremely important to learn to safely prepare for anal sex before engaging in it, so please...

2026-01-05  4520

Is it a teardrop? Is it a minimalist Christmas tree? Heck no, it’s a butt plug: one of the simplest, yet most effective pleasure items made precisely for going where the sun don’t shine. It’s all in the name. A butt plug is to use as a plug for your butthole, however, that’s totally overlo...

2025-12-16  4976

It’s no secret that we are living in pretty butt-centric times. As far back as 2014 , people were scratching their heads over the resurgence of round, juicy bottoms in pop culture, and even then they were talking about a cultural movement that was years in the making. This is by no means a...

2025-11-25  1734

Edging is the practice of stopping yourself just before you reach orgasm, when you are on the metaphorical “edge” of sexual climax. While originally invented as a treatment for premature ejaculation, edging can help people climax more easily, and enable us to develop control over when those or...

2025-11-18  4714

So, you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience. If anal isn’t for you though, that’s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it com...

2025-11-17  3498

This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. In women, the G-spot is an area that, when stimulated, often leads to very intense orgasms. Much has been said and written about the G-spot, and there’s still some debate about what exactly it is, but research suggests tha...

2025-11-01  2767

If you’re inexperienced or have never done it before, anal sex can seem daunting. It’s likely because you’ve heard: one, that you’ll poop, and two, that it’s painful. While both outcomes are possible, rest assured there are a number of things you can do to greatly limit or eliminate these ...

2025-10-16  6492

Anal training is a process that helps make anal sex more pleasurable. Just like your genitalia, the anus has many sensitive nerve endings that can feel nice when stimulated. Also, the prostate is inside men’s anus, which is an extremely sensitive spot that can give mind-blowing prostate orgasms....

2025-10-05  6275

Anal play can be a bit intimidating when you’re first starting out, but it’s also the gateway to a whole bunch of untapped pleasure . It can also require a bit more strategy and preparation than what you may be used to – especially when using toys. That’s because there’s a bit more of an...

2025-10-02  9584

Jump to: General Anal Massage Tips Different Anal Massage Techniques The Best Anal Massage Positions Everyone knows anal sex, but have you heard about something even better – anal massage? While the interest in anal sex for all genders is on the rise, anal penetration can be intimid...

2025-08-19  1477

Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana and I am so excited about our Q&A today on the topic of anal play. And apparently so are you, because I received more questions on this topic than any other topic I’ve ever done! So let’s go! Q: Can it be pleasurable for women? Let’s start with a basic ...

2025-08-13  9407

Anal sex. While this topic can be learnt about everywhere from your aunt’s copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves to a first year film class (please, please do not pull a Brando and use butter for lube, a la Last Tango in Paris ), that doesn’t mean we don’t all go into our first foray with a litt...

2025-08-12  3414

Are you interested in exploring anal play but don’t quite know where to start? Anal play can be incredibly exciting and fun , yet can also be a bit nervewracking – especially if you’re brand new to it. Yet it can be incredibly pleasurable as long as you take into account some basic tips and ...

2025-08-09  1946

Anal play is an exciting way to spice up your sex life, and anal toys are a safe and pleasurable ways to explore new sensations in this erogenous zone. Due to the stigma that still exists around this form of play, there are many misconceptions around anal toys. Some believe that it will be painful...

2025-07-29  7647