masturbation

Solitary Sex: How Self Pleasure Will Get You Through Sheltering Alone

We have entered week whatever and a year (yes, the official count) of lockdown, and it may be starting to get to you. If you are sheltering alone this time may feel surprisingly stressful. And if you are extra irritable or feeling lonelier than expected, you are not crazy! There are basic, biologica...

2025-12-02  543

A Beginner’s Guide To Frotting (or Rubbing Penises)

Frotting is a sex act that occurs between two people with penises and is sometimes called frottage or frot. To perform a frot, partners rub their penis (and sometimes testicles) together. Someone may also simply rub their penis on another body part. Deriving from the French word ‘frotter,’ whi...

2025-11-20  373

The Best Sex Toys for Edging: Men and Women

Edging is a super versatile and sexy sexual practice, whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo. And one way to make it even better is with the help of sex toys. Edging is the sexual practice of intentionally delaying your orgasm, according to The International Society for Sexual Medic...

2025-11-09  4053

The Future of AI Sex: How Technology Is Reshaping Intimacy

Artificial intelligence (AI) has quietly entered nearly every aspect of our daily lives, from the phones in our pockets to the cars we drive and the platforms we stream. But one of the most surprising frontiers for AI is also one of the most intimate: sex. This growing intersection of technology ...

2025-11-06  3746

Which Sex Toy Should I Get? Take Our Quiz

Selecting the right sex toy can be overwhelming when it comes to navigating the many different kinds that exist. That’s why we created a sex toy quiz to help you narrow down your preferences and give recommendations. To access the free quiz, click here: SEX TOY QUIZ The full list of questions...

2025-11-02  3962

The Science of Sexy Dreams: From Subconscious Desires to Biology

Waking up flustered, sweaty, or even slightly embarrassed after a “naughty” dream is a universal human experience. Whether it was a steamy encounter with a celebrity or a bizarre tryst with a boss, erotic dreams are a natural, healthy part of our internal landscape. Research suggests that about...

2025-10-31  151

Is It Healthy To Masturbate? Dr. Zhana Q&A

Hi everyone, Dr. Zhana here! Let’s answer some questions! To start off with, “Is it healthy to masturbate?” The answer is: absolutely yes! There are so many benefits to masturbation and virtually no downsides! So go ahead and explore! Q: Dildo or vibrator? That depends on what kind of stim...

2025-10-31  2565

Let’s Get Wet: LELO’s Waterproof Vibrators and Waterproof Sex Toys

Along with the improvements to design and function of our popular predecessors, we’ve now made all of our favorite best sellers fully-waterproof, meaning you can take these improved pleasures into the bath or shower with complete peace of mind. Some of you may be thinking, “How can a water...

2025-10-24  6192

The Ethics of Masturbating In A Relationship

Is masturbation cheating? It’s one of those little questions that shouldn’t matter, and it doesn’t, until it really does. Like, ‘do we have enough oxygen?’ or ‘what happens if you cross a cat with a T-Rex?’ Despite a growing amount of flexibility in our relationships, the majorit...

2025-10-11  932

Best Techniques for Using a Vibrator for Full-Body Pleasure

Vibrators are traditionally associated with genital stimulation, but their potential extends far beyond that. When used creatively, they can enhance relaxation, relieve tension, and awaken newerogenous zones for a full-body pleasure experience. Whether exploring solo or with a partner, learning...

2025-10-09  8144

You Are Your Own Best Sex Partner

May was, once again, Masturbation Month , a whole month of masturbatory glee invented in the 90s by an enviously forward-thinking sex toy store in New York. And yet, despite us having a month of open frivolity (and rampant sex toy marketing), the discussion of masturbation in public is still conside...

2025-10-06  8522

“Call Her Daddy” Host Alex Cooper Names SILA as Favorite Vibrator

Over the years, podcast host and cultural provocateur Alex Cooper (ofCall Her Daddy ) has amassed a devoted following for her unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. So when one of her Instagram followers recently asked, “What vibrators do you recommend for a beginner?” her a...

2025-10-04  7104

Enigma Range – A Comprehensive Review

The LELO ENIGMA range is redefining the world of dual-stimulation vibrators (and even triple-stimulation for the most recent models), offering an advanced and luxurious approach to pleasure and orgasms. Designed to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris , these high-end devices use Son...

2025-09-24  4685

Prostate Milking in 5 Easy Steps

Ahh, the magical prostate! A walnut-sized gland found in men that, when stimulated, can create a whirlwind of sexual bliss and full-body orgasms. And while massaging the prostate has been ‘a thing’ since the late 19th century, when doctors began performing it to treat inflammation aka pr...

2025-09-10  2364

Why Soap Isn’t Always Enough for Cleaning Sex Toys

Knowing how to clean sex toys is an essential part of owning pleasure products. While it might not be the sexiest part of owning a vibrator, stroker, or butt plug, proper sex toy hygiene is necessary since these items come into direct contact with bodily fluids. And while you’ve probably been told...

2025-09-07  2194