So you want to give your partner a blowjob that’ll make his knees weak? Yeah, we’ve got you covered! We’re so well-versed in the art of giving great head, in fact, that we’ve compiled a mega blowjob guide with 50 blowjob tips. Go from zero to hero in a matter of 5 to 10 minutes (or however l...

2025-08-27  8223

As explained by the people at Live Science , the gag reflex is triggered by “an object touching the roof of your mouth, the back of your tongue, the area around your tonsils, or the back of your throat.” Your gag reflex is meant to stop things from getting into your throat that are too big...

2025-08-20  1843

Oral sex positions are our favorite thing to write about, simply because there are so possibilities – you can really let the creative juices flow, so to speak. That’s not to say that straying from the receiver-lying-on-their-back configuration won’t require some finesse – not to mention st...

2025-08-19  4547

Listen to this article: https://www.lelo.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/What-Does-Vagina-Taste-Like-Veronica-Harder.wav Loaded question, but today we’re going to dive into the taste of vagina. For many vulva owners, their taste, smell, and appearance ‘down there’ can be a cause of...

2025-08-17  7277

Maybe you’ve seen deep-throating in videos and want to try it for yourself, or perhaps you’re looking to blow a partner’s mind (among other things) with a new trick in your sexual arsenal. No matter what your motivation is for deep-throating, it’s not something you can just jump into—it ta...

2025-08-09  3661

Let’s be real… we come from the era of American Pie . If a dude can stick his fingers into a warm pie to replicate the feeling of fingering a woman , then heck, the world can use other kinds of fruits and vegetables to get off. If you have no idea what I am talking about, then you’re...

2025-08-01  7998

Because all genders are created equally and sex is positively fantastic – there are two special days allocated for the sexual pleasure of both men and women respectively. What a fantastic time to be alive, right? So, while February 14th (aka Valentine’s Day ) is a magical 24 hours for those in l...

2025-07-24  6991

The chances are pretty high that you’ve either been in a threesome or you have wanted to be in one. In fact, a threesome is one of the most popular fantasies for both men and women (and the number one fantasy for Americans, according to a survey). But are people actually engaging in thre...

2025-07-22  450

Just like any other type of sex, oral sex, or “69-ing”, can be done in different ways. It involves pleasuring your partner (or receiving pleasure) by using the mouth and tongue on their genitalia. The 69 position in particular means that both partners give and receive oral sex simultaneously...

2025-07-09  6365

Welcome to LELO’s Oral Sex Kitchen, a new show in which we try to make erotic recipes but usually end up having sex on the floor halfway through, everything gets burned, and we order pizza instead. It’s a bacchanalian miasma of genital delights. What do you want? Because it’s EVERYWHERE… Ora...

2025-07-08  7598

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle,founder of Killing Kittens , the members-only club that hosts female-oriented sex parties around the world, to the Volonté blog as a guest author. Here, she offers her thoughts on what separates a good blow job from the bad. When Mouths Start Movi...

2025-06-29  230

There are a zillion places in which one can give or receive oral sex . In the shower , in bed, on the kitchen counter, on the sofa … the list goes on and on. But when it comes to road head, there’s a certain element of danger, and thrill to it, making it even more enticing. Of cour...

2025-06-26  7687

Taste is arguably the most intimate of the five senses. Think about it—on any given day, we see so many people, we hear so many people, we (unfortunately) smell so many people, and even touch multiple people. We are so constantly bombarded by these sensory interactions—the multitude of fac...

2025-04-30  1409

If you’ve read the first part of our guide to giving an amazing blow job you were probably thinking ‘Hey! But there’s so much more to think about when giving a blow job than getting into position and deciding where to put my hands!’ And you’re completely right. Below we’ve continued to w...

2025-04-13  7936

Difficulty Rating: 1/5 Pros: We make no secret about being fans of oral sex position s that switch things up, and if it lets us play with power dynamics too? That’s even more delicious! While oral sex of any variety is not inherently submissive behavior (despite what some outdated ideas ab...

2025-04-04  439